How To Cum More And Shoot Farther Part 2
Ejaculation is, basically, the complex process of moving sperm from a tube in your testicles to the head of your dick, resulting in the expulsion of semen. Let’s say you’re playing with yourself or with any luck, banging some chick, when you feel close to the point of “inevitability.” Here’s what happens:
Sperm moves from a tube in your testicles to the part of the urethra that starts in your prostate, where it mixes with seminal fluid created by the prostate and seminal vesicles. The bladder neck automatically shuts off to prevent sperm and semen from going backwards into your body.
This creates the beginning of a “pressure chamber.” Now, there’s only one way for the semen to go: Up and out. By the way, the “pressure chamber” theory was first outlined in The Science of Orgasm (2005) by Barry Komisaruk and colleagues.
This triggers the “propulsatile ejaculation”—rhythmic contractions of the seminal vesicle, prostatic, urethral and pelvic floor muscles that propel your load out the end of the urethra at the tip of your penis. It’s important to note that there is virtually no voluntary control of this phase (or haven’t you noticed?). If we could control it the male O-face wouldn’t look like Jerry Lewis being electrocuted!
There are four major factors that contribute to an explosive ejaculation. Pay attention because if you understand the factors you’ll understand why the urologists in my panel recommend the tactics you’ll find later in this book:
1. A Pressure Chamber Works Better When There’s More Substance In The Chamber To Pressure.
The more semen in your system the more pressure it creates in the chamber. Your body knows it’s going to have to apply a lot more muscle to propel the semen out through the urethra if the load is bigger than usual. If you squeeze an almost empty tube of toothpaste you’ll create little pressure. But squeeze it when it’s full and you’ve got good news to brush your teeth with!
Same thing with the pressure chamber in your nether regions: The less semen in your system, the less pressure it creates, resulting in less propulsion.
Your goal: Make more semen. We’ll talk about how to do that in chapter five.
2. A Pressure Chamber Becomes More Explosive When There Are More External Forces Squeezing It.
What are the external forces squeezing your chamber? Muscle and organ contractions. The seminal vesicles, the prostate and the entire urogenital and pelvic floor muscles act on this chamber to propel the white stuff out of the chute.
Your goal: Strengthen the muscles that are in your voluntary control (some aren’t). See the next chapter for how to do that.
3. Intensity of Sexual Desire Coils the Pressure Chamber For A Stronger Release.
Orgasms aren’t just a physical phenomenon; they are strongly affected by your thoughts and feelings. It’s a well-known medical fact that the intensity of your desire acts as six-cylinder fuel injection for the orgasm. It puts more pressure on all your body parts and you know what pressure does in that pelvic floor chamber, right? KA-BOOM.
Your goal: Amp up the intensity of your sexual desire. You can do this in any number of ways, which we’ll cover in chapter four.
4. A Harder Erection—Not A Bigger Dick—Causes Explosive Ejaculations.
Ever notice the variations in hardness between your erections? Sometimes it’s so hard it could cut glass. Other times it’s like, okay–hard enough to get the job done but nothing to brag about. The difference in hardness is attributed to blood flow to the penis. The more blood the harder you get. And the harder you get, the faster semen will propel through the urethra out of the opening of your penis. The hardness squeezes the urethra so that semen coming out of it is going to launch, not dribble .
Your goal: Get more blood into your penis when you masturbate or have sex. Details in chapter six.
An Orgasmic Aside.
Did you know that the male orgasm lasts longer than a woman’s? Research shows that women’s orgasms last about 18 seconds of loveliness while men clock in at 22 seconds. Of course, these are just averages.
Another neat factoid.
Ejaculations can reach speeds of up to 28 miles per hour. Damn, that’s faster than Usain Bolt can run the 100-meter. Ahh, but sperm like to take their time once they’re in the vagina (who doesn’t), slowing down to about 4 miles per hour.
Okay, last one.
Spermine, a powerful antioxidant in human sperm, is believed to diminish wrinkles and smooth the skin. They’re being bottled and sold in swanky spas as a “sperm special.” Think about how much your partners could save if you’d just do it for them!
And one more. Okay, I lied. But this one’s great.
Ever notice that most porn stars “shoot” rather than “dribble” when they ejaculate? All is not what it seems. To get the money shot they want, directors will often use synthetic semen, which is shot-squeezed from a small tube. The preferred substance is condensed milk.