I’ve always been intrigued by articles that title themselves, “How to Have Gay Sex.” Seems like it should be self-evident, yes? Actually, no. Nobody gets schooled in the art of gay sex. The only real teacher is experience. But experience can be a cold, not to mention painful, master.
Women don’t need to be taught how to receive a penis between their legs. But men absolutely have to be taught that. An average-sized man is going to fit into an average-sized woman with very little problem. That is not necessarily true between two men. Actually, that is ABSOLUTELY not true.
Somebody once told me that reaching a man’s pleasure center – – his prostate – – is like eating lobster. You have to work really hard to get to the meat. He’s right about that but he left out, as most tops do, the other side of the equation. What about the lobster? He’s the one getting his shell cracked!
Hence, books that show you how to have gay sex are invaluable. I do have to say that the best book on the subject isn’t mine. It is Jack Morin’s classic, Anal Health And Pleasure. Don’t let the unfortunate title turn you off. It is chock-full of great information.
It’s always hard to write a book that has a classic in its genre, but I decided to write one anyway because although Jack’s book is terrific you really do have to, excuse the term, “plow” through the book to get its nutty goodness. So I did two things with my gay anal sex book: 1) I made it more of a how-to than a complete explanation of the care and feeding of the gluteus maximus as Jack does. 2) I put a gay porn spin on it. I interviewed lots of industry folk to ask them how they prepare for the loading and unloading of the cargo.
Check it out for yourself: click here to read more from my gay sex book, How to Bottom Like a Porn Star.