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Top 30 Best Prostate Massagers For Men

September 22, 2020

Top 30 Best Prostate Massagers For Men

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We got our Top 30 Prostate Massagers For Men by aggregating thousands of critic and user reviews and turning them into single, understandable scores from our Moan-O-Meter.

 For the critics score, we swept the web for every prostate massager review we could get our hands on that was done by professional critics with blogs that specialize in sex toy reviews.

We categorized each one of those reviews on a scale from very negative to very positive.

Then we summarized the pros the cons and the in-betweens into what we call the “critics consensus.”

On the customer side, we scoured the web for every sex toy online retailer who published reviews from customers who purchased the products.

We were careful only to use stores that had a designation called Google Seller Ratings. This ensures that all the published reviews came from verified purchases, as Google has extensive requirements for a retailer to achieve the Google Seller Rating designation.

From there, we calculated each product’s average score, then had our statistician design a fair and equitable way of turning the scores into percentages that would be meaningful for consumers to compare products. 

At first we didn’t want to publish such a long list. After all, most people would just stop at the top 10 or 15. But the truth is the top 10 or 15 might not have the features in a prostate massager that you would want, so it makes sense to include as many as we can.

It’s important to reiterate that we do not conduct any sex toy reviews. If that were so, you would see a listing of our personal preferences.

Instead, what you are seeing is essentially the wisdom of the crowds. What we are presenting to you is what the market thinks of the products.

We think this is a much more valuable way of sizing up a product. We hope you agree!

 

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Njoy Pure Plug 2.0

Level: Beginner
Vibrates: no
Made of: Stainless Steel
Price: About $100

Critics Consensus

Known as the “Rolls Royce of plugs,” this absolutely gorgeous, stainless steel, hand-polished prostate massager is frequently described as a sight for sore eyes and a site for pure pleasure.

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LELO Billy

Level: Beginner

Vibrates: Yes

Made of: Silicon

Price: About $100

Critics Consensus

With a perfect curvature for the prostate, 35 vibration intensities delivering different types of orgasmic feelings, this “whisper-quiet” vibrator with a thinner girth for rookies is THE pick for beginners who want a prostate massager that vibrates.

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Lelo Hugo

Level: Advanced
Vibrates: Yes
Made of: Silicone
Price: About $215

Critics Consensus

The sleek, u-shaped design, the bulbed insertable end and two separate motors that simultaneously massage the prostate and perineum make this massager the advanced favorite among critics and users. 

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Fun Factory Bootie

Level: Beginner
Vibrates: No
Made of: Silicone
Price: About $36

Critics Consensus

Praised for its brilliant design, portability, soothing texture, and ease of insertion, the Fun Factory Bootie is the highest rated prostate massager for beginner. With a low price point for body-safe silicone, it's an unbeatable option for those new to prostate play.

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Aneros Helix Syn

Level: Beginner
Vibrates: No
Made of: Silicone
Price: About $72

Critics Consensus

Critics and reviewers alike loved the Aneros Eupho Syn for its ergonomic, lightweight design, surprisingly comfortable insertion, and the intense, hands-free orgasms it produces.

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Loki Wave

Level: Intermediate-Advanced
Vibrates: Yes
Made of: Silicone
Price: About $230

Critics Consensus

Hailed by critics and users alike for its dual vibrators (one for the prostate, the other for the perineum), this high-end massager sports an unusual feature in the form of a ‘finger’ that isn’t shy about asking you to ‘come hither.' Comes with ten different vibrational settings.

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Aneros Progasm

Level: Intermediate-Advanced
Vibrates: No
Made of: Plastic
Price: About $60

Critics Consensus

Users and critics alike hail the Progasm’s ability to deliver simultaneous stimulation to the prostate, perineum and an acupressure point beneath the tailbone, despite the learning curve and some disappointment in the specially designed “tabs.”

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Njoy Pfun Plug

Level: Intermediate-Advanced
Vibrates: No
Made of: Steel
Price: About $95

Critics Consensus

The shiny, sleek stainless steel construction of the Njoy Pfun Plug gives the versatility of temperature play, while the perfect curve of the stem, slim base and a tapered, bulbous head guarantees the prostate stimulation you are looking for.

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Rocks Off Naughty Boy

Level: Beginner
Vibrates: Yes
Made of: Silicone
Price: About $65

Critics Consensus

Praised for being “beginner friendly” by users and critics, Naughty boy is perfect for first time users and people who prefer the slim versions of prostate massagers. It has an easy grip design, rounded head for easy insertion, and a curved design to hit the P-Spot.

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Aneros Eupho Syn

Level: Beginner
Vibrates: No
Made of: Plastic
Price: About $72

Critics Consensus

Critics and reviewers alike loved the Aneros Eupho Syn for its ergonomic, lightweight design, surprisingly comfortable insertion, and the intense, hands-free orgasms it produces.

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Lelo Bruno

Level: Intermediate-Advanced
Vibrates: Yes
Made of: Silicone
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Critics Consensus

Luxurious with two powerful motors (one for the prostate, another for the perineum) and 6 vibration settings, this fully submersible massager can take you to ecstasy and back in a single 2-hour charge.

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Aneros Progasm Jr.

Level: Beginner
Vibrates: No
Made of: Plastic
Price: About $60

Critics Consensus

Users and critics alike hail the Progasm’s ability to deliver simultaneous stimulation to the prostate, perineum and an acupressure point beneath the tailbone, despite the learning curve and some disappointment in the specially designed “tabs.”

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Fun Factory Duke

Level: Beginner
Vibrates: Yes
Made of: Silicone
Price: About $110

Critics Consensus

The appearance of the Duke may be intimidating, but users agree looks are deceiving. Its odd shape and backwards-reaching bulbous head are perfectly positioned to cup most users’ P-spot.Taking a two-tabbed approach to prostate stimulation (prostate and perineum) this massager more than satisfied most reviewers.

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Tantus P-Spot

Level: Intermediate-Advanced
Vibrates: Yes
Made of: Silicone
Price: About $54

Critics Consensus

Not for the faint of heart or those unexperienced in anal play, users describe the Tantus P-spot as “a serious piece of sex hardware.” The silicone shaft has a large bulbous tip that’s curved for prostate stimulation but isn’t tapered like many other anal toys.

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Je Joue Nuo

Level: Intermediate-Advanced
Vibrates: Yes
Made of: Silicone
Price: About $150

Critics Consensus

Glowing reviews from users and critics center around the silky-smooth silicone body and powerful, 2-motored approach for endless amounts of vibration-based fun. Critics are crazy about the myriad of options that the Nuo offers you, with the ability to personalize all sorts of rumbly vibrations from either an app on a smartphone or a lookalike pen for more discreet play.

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Level: Beginner
Vibrates: Yes
Made of: Silicone
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Critics Consensus

Sleek, vibrating silicone prostate massager for beginners, it's easily insertable. Reviewers love the slim, flexible, curved shaft, which offers non-intimidating, precise stimulation. The flared base with textured perineum tickler stops unwanted travel and the removeable 7 function bullet vibrator offers a range of vibrations.

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Maximus Trident

Level: Intermediate-Advanced
Vibrates: No
Made of: Plastic
Price: About $55

Critics Consensus

The Aneros Maximus Trident offers both internal prostate and external perineum stimulation, thanks to the “P” and “K” tabs. The neck of the massager has a moderately-sized, bulbous head angled to stimulate the prostate and a second bulge that helps keep the massager in place.

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Aneros Helix Trident

Level: Intermediate-Advanced
Vibrates: No
Made of: Plastic
Price: About $66

Critics Consensus

The Helix Syn Trident is an updated version of Aneros’ previous model (the Helix Syn). It maintains the same classic Aneros design but offers a smaller head allowing for more targeted prostate play. Users praise the newly designed perineum tabs which are much “smoother” and provide a steadier, more comfortable amount of pressure.

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Tantus ElectraStim

Level: Advanced
Vibrates: Yes
Made of: Silicone
Price: About HERE

Critics Consensus

With a dual-channel stimulator that enlivens four quadri-polar contacts with electrosex tingles this advanced massager will focus on stimulation to either side of the shaft or either side of the perineum massager.

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Aneros Tempo

Level: Beginners
Vibrates: No
Made of: Steel
Price: About $70

Critics Consensus

Known as the “silver spoon” due to its shape and high-grade, polished stainless steel, critics rave about the Tempo’s smooth texture and how easy it is to insert. The stainless steel construction also means users can experiment with temperature play, which may help counteract what one reviewer calls “a shock to the system” when inserting the cold steel.

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Aneros Peridise

Level: Beginner
Vibrates: No
Made of: Plastic
Price: About $20

Critics Consensus

Bargain shopper buyers rejoice! You get two toys for the price of one when purchasing the Aneros Peridise. Start with the smaller and then graduate to the larger one. The most commented feature of the Peridise is the way it quivers inside the body once inserted.

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Crowned Jewels Marylbone

Level: Intermediate-Advanced
Vibrates: No
Made of: Aluminum
Price: About $85

Critics Consensus

Critics crow over this dual-ended beauty thanks to its glossy, shiny silver surface. Offering six undulating globes and a curved shape, the polished material is hypoallergenic, body safe, and ideal for hot or cold temperature play.

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Nexus Gyro

Level: Intermediate-Advanced
Vibrates: No
Made of: Silicone
Price: About $66

Critics Consensus

Critics rave about the Nexus Gyro’s girth and solid, heavy design. Made from smooth silicone, the large neck, pointed tip, and globe-shaped handle make it LARGE and in charge–not for anybody but the deeply experienced.
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Crowned Jewels Shaftsbury

Level: Beginner
Vibrates: No
Made of: Aluminum
Price: About $76

Critics Consensus

Critics describe this massager with adjectives like “Luxury,” “High Art,” and “Distinctly Deluxe.” The smooth ‘S’ shaped curve on one end is perfectly angled for p-spot stimulation perfection, and the three different sized bulbs on the other end provide pleasurable rippling sensations.

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Nexus Excel

Level: Intermediate-Advanced
Vibrates: No
Made of: Plastic
Price: About $48

Critics Consensus

The T-shaped base provides a stable foundation and a steel rolling ball offers external stimulation that feels like you’re being licked, according to critics. Users control the pressure and penetration using a rocking motion to achieve a hands-free orgasm.

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Gläs Pure Indulgence

Level: Intermediate-Advanced
Vibrates: No
Made of: Glass
Price: About $22

Critics Consensus

Dramatically angled with a sensuously tapered bulbous tip on one end and a mid-sized sphere on the opposite end, users and expert critics agree that the Gläs Pure Indulgence Anal Slider is the ideal versatile toy.

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Level: Beginner
Vibrates: No
Made of: Silicone
Price: About $75

Critics Consensus

With its smooth silicon design and velvet touch, this is a comfortable, manageable prostate massager for both beginners and sex toy enthusiasts. Critics credit the small bulbous head and angled, contoured stem for more targeted prostate stimulation.

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Luscious Playthings Curved Handle

Level: Intermediate-Advanced
Vibrates: No
Made of: Glass
Price: About $102

Critics Consensus

This 24k gold-veined dildo has a 3 1/2" handle for better grip and control, allowing more of the piece to be utilized. Adorned with actual 24K gold raised vein texture critics say it looks as good as it feels. Gold is 'fumed' onto the surface of the glass with a torch and then clear veins are sculpted on top of it.

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Aneros DeVice

Level: Intermediate-Advanced
Vibrates: No
Made of: Silicone
Price: About $70

Critics Consensus

Critics love the velvety smooth design that needs little to no lube for comfortable insertion. This hands-free device relies solely on the user’s sphincter muscles for stimulation (every time you clench your sphincter the DeVice stimulates your prostate).

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Gläs Honey Dripper

Level: Beginner
Vibrates: No
Made of: Glass
Price: About $26

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This small, durable, shatter resistant glass massager is beloved for its rounded base and a hefty weight that provides constant control over penetration and angle. And with a $26 price tag, it's pretty much an unbeatable option for beginners.

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September 6, 2020

Why You Have To Buy Sex Toys Made With Body Safe Materials

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Why You Have To Buy Sex Toys Made With Body Safe Materials

Non-Toxic. Non-Porous. Body-Safe. These are important buzzwords in regards to sex toys, but what exactly do they mean, and why are they important? You’re about to find out why it’s critical that you only buy sex toys made with body safe materials.

If sex toys were classified as medical devices, they would subject to manufacturing regulations enforced by the FDA and put through rigorous testing to ensure they are safe for use prior to being marketed and sold to the public. 

Since they are classified as novelty items, the sex toy manufacturing industry is free to use labels like non-toxic and body-safe without those claims having been proven accurate. 

Expert critics at Sex Toy Collective explain the importance of this distinction, saying “A novelty means that it is intended to be for visual and aesthetic purposes.  By selling toys as novelties stores can get away with selling dildos made of cheap and dangerous materials.”

Sex Toys Are An Unregulated Industry

Sarah Sloat at Inverse warns that you are responsible for ensuring that sex toy you are purchasing is safe for use: “This $15 billion industry has some of the most unregulated safety standards in the country, at both the state and federal level. When it comes to buying sex toys, the burden of determining whether companies are honest about toxic materials, harmful design flaws, and misleading packaging falls solely on the consumer.”  

Because there are no regulations governing the production of sex toys, it’s left to the consumer to be sure they are purchasing safe toys from reputable companies that do not use toxic materials in the manufacturing of their products. “When you purchase a chair, you can presume that the commission has rigorously tested its utility, meaning you probably won’t fall as soon as you sit on it. But when you buy a vibrating dildo, you can only hope that it’ll screw you in the way that you want,” says Sarah Sloat. 

What are Phthalates?

Also known as plasticizers, phthalates are chemical additives used to make plastics more flexible and less likely to break. Phthalates are commonly found in numerous products, including personal care products (shampoo, nail polish, etc), rain coats, plastic automotive parts, detergents, lubricating oils, and until 2018 in the United States, plastic children’s toys. In regards to exposure to these dangerous chemicals, “The risk is relatively low, since the phthalates come in lower concentrations,” explains professional critic Mia Hart from Blissful Cherry. “They do not make much contact with your body.”

Why should you care?

You may not have to worry about intimate bodily contact with those raincoats and automotive parts, but sex toys are another story. Since most are designed to be inserted in your anus, vagina, or mouth for prolonged periods of time, your exposure risk is much higher than with other every-day items. This is bad news for your nether regions, not only because they are more sensitive, but also because the amount of phthalates used in cheap, poor quality sex toys. “Sex toys that utilize phthalates use them in very high quantity,” says Mia Hart from Blissful Cherry. “It requires a lot more phthalates to get a thick dildo to be bendy and flexible compared to a thin shower curtain.”

Consequences Of Using Toxic Sex Toys. 

Allergic reactions causing burning, stinging, or itching could be the least of your problems. Yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis, and serious conditions including cancer and infertility could result from using a sex toy made from porous or unsafe materials. 

Professional critic Felicity of Phallophile Reviews warns of the dangers of using toxic sex toys: “Toxic toys leach harmful byproducts into your body, including unknown chemical additives6 and phthalates. Phthalates are a special cause for concern because these plasticizers (additives that make PVC and other rubbers softer and more flexible) have been associated with—but not directly linked to—cancer and numerous other health problems.”

Sex Toy Testing

Not sure if your toy is safe?  There are a few DIY ways to test for sex toy safety at home. 

Flame Test.

“Flame testing” is a test used on silicone toys to determine if the toy marketed as 100% silicone really is 100% silicone.  A quick and easy test, all you need is your supposedly silicone toy and a lighter. Hold the orange part of the flame to the toy to see how it burns.  Dangerous Lilly offers advice on determining the results of your flame test, saying, “One thing that a pure silicone will NOT do, no matter what type it is, is burn like an oil lamp.” She says to look for certain results indicating a pure silicone product, including “pale-to-medium gray ash which is easily removed; a small amount of material damage and “flaking”, leaving behind a sticky patch; no change; black, sooty mark that rubs off easily; black, sooty mark that doesn’t rub off 100%.” If your sex toy is not pure silicone, you will wind up with a flaming and/or melted toy – so be sure to  keep some water nearby when doing this test. 

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Lick Test.

Lick it!  Sounds weird, right? This test may not be ideal for all people, as some may find this method to be, well, gross.  If you lick your toy and your tongue goes numb, that indicates a dangerous chemical that you do not want any (more) exposure to. If licking your toy to determine if it’s toxic doesn’t appeal to you, the experts at Sex Toy Collective propose an alternative method using one of your other five senses: “As an alternative to this I just smell it and if it smells chemically I know it has phthalates – this takes more experience though.”

Polariscope Test.

This method involves a tool used by jewelers and geologists called  a polariscope to determine if glass has been properly annealed. The Sex Toy Collective recommends ordering one from Amazon for around $30. “It will reveal the flow of the glass and show you how it cooled.  If the toy shows rainbow colors it is weaker and more fragile than a clear toy.” A weak or fragile glass toy is not a toy that would be considered body-safe, and it poses a significant health risk by being more likely to break or chip. 

Lead Test.

Glass toys can also be tested for lead at home with a simple lead testing kit. “Lead can appear in glass toys with a varnish coating on them,” explains Sex Toy Collective. Lead poisoning can lead to serious health complications, and in severe cases can be fatal. 

Avoid These Sex Toys

There are some sex toys on the market that should not be sold. Without any regulation, it’s important to do your research. Sex Toy Collective warns “It’s still the wild wild west for sex toys and regulations are almost non-existent.  Chinese factories can get away with putting toxic chemicals into rubber toys.” You’ll want to avoid toys made from these materials:

Jelly.

Because Jelly toys are among the cheapest to produce, they are generally made with large amounts of phthalates and other toxic chemicals. Samantha Evans at Jo Divine also explains that they are impossible to sanitize,  saying “jelly products are porous and therefore difficult to keep clean. The material used to make them is more prone to breaking down and degrading over time, making the product unhygienic to use.”

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Rubber.

Although body-safe silicone is also known as “silicone rubber,” don’t be fooled by manufacturers that market their “rubber” products as body-safe. Felicity of Phallophile Reviews advises, “This is another porous material that often contains phthalates; there’s no way to tell for sure what’s in it without chemical analysis.”

Cyberskin.

This skin-soft material is highly porous, can’t be sanitized, and can be toxic. Dangerous Lily warns, “If it’s not pure silicone, and it looks super realistic (and it’s not Fleshlight) then avoid it.” 

Vinyl and PVC.

Cheap to produce, therefore likely to be high in phthalates, vinyl and PVC toys should be avoided.  Miss Ruby Reviews recommends you avoid any toy made with vinyl and PVC, saying, “PVC, by nature, is a very hard substance, so if you have a soft squishy PVC toy, it’s likely that it’s been softened with toxic phthalates. This is a very common sex toy material because it’s cheap to produce. This is a very porous material.”

TPE, TPR, Elastomer, and Other Silicone-Blends.

Although it is possible to find sex toys made from these materials that are non-toxic, they will still be porous, so it’s best to put them on your “avoid” list. Miss Ruby Reviews explains, “TPE sex toys have been known to retain things like HPV, so definitely no sharing. The vast majority of TPE on the market is porous, so I personally avoid it.”

Sex Toys To Use With Caution

These are toys that fall into a gray area, as they are non-toxic but not necessarily body-safe. Toys in this category would not be considered shareable between partners, as they cannot be properly sanitized. 

Porous Toys.

Porous toys are toys that can never be properly sanitized. They are not safe to be shared between partners, and you should exercise caution if you ever use the toy when you have any kind of infection, as you could reinfect yourself. Dangerous Lilly cautions that, “Bacteria, mildew, fungus etc can enter the pores of these materials and make a home. The more porous the material is, the easier this will happen.”

Unannealed Glass Toys. 

“Annealing is a delicate process that takes a lot of skill, resources, and proper machinery. An annealed dildo is strong and won’t break as easily as other glass dildos,” explains Sex Toy Collective.  Use caution when purchasing glass toys, and always buy from a reputable company. You’ll also want to avoid glass toys with any sort of coating or varnish.   

Unflared Anal Toys. 

Sometimes it’s not just the materials the sex toy is made from, it’s the design, too.  Unflared anal toys are at risk for getting stuck in your rectum, requiring a trip to the ER. Sex Toy Collective recommends you pay attention to manufactures, noting that, “Chinese manufacturers will market a toy on amazon as an anal toy, when it should only be a dildo.  Only use toys anally if they are flared enough that they won’t get stuck inside you.”

Sex Toys That Are Known To Be Safe

There are plenty of non-toxic, non-porous, body-safe sex toys made by reputable manufacturers available on the market.  

100% Pure Silicone.

“This is the quintessential material used in designer sex toys. If a sex toy uses silicone, you can rest assured knowing you are getting a high-quality product,” explains Mia Hart from Blissful Cherry. Silicone is non-porous and easy to clean, so it can be shared and properly sanitized.

Wood.

Make sure your wood toys are properly sealed with a medical grade finish for safety and longevity. Felicity of  Phallophile Reviews says, “Wood toys are safe if they’re coated in multiple layers of body-safe varnish, like Nobessence toys are.”

Medical-Grade Stainless Steel.

Medical grade stainless steel toys are non-toxic, non-porous, and easy to clean. Dangerous Lilly highly recommends Njoy as the premier brand for stainless steel toys.

Glass.

“Glass is non-porous, phthalate-free, hypoallergenic, and difficult to destroy,” explains Miss Ruby Reviews. Properly annealed glass is easily sanitized, non-porous, and non-toxic, making it a very safe sex toy material. 

Plastic

As long as it’s ABS plastic, you’re fine.

Conclusion

Educating yourself on the difference between safe and unsafe materials used in the manufacturing of sex toys is an important part of being a responsible sex toy owner. “For now, the onus is on consumers to figure out what’s safe. The easy accessibility of the Amazon and eBay sex toy market has made that more difficult in recent years, and not just because it’s harder to verify what goes into international products,” explains Sarah Sloan from Inverse. Until the time comes when sex toys are recognized as more than “novelty items” and manufacturers are required to prove that their products are safe and non-toxic, consumers will have to be vigilant about their own health and safety. 

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What Is A Prostate Orgasm?

September 5, 2020

What Is A Prostate Orgasm?

What Is A Prostate Orgasm?What Is A Prostate Orgasm?

For a lot of men reaching climax is when you come, ejaculating through the penis. In most cases, the build-up to this wonderous moment comes through stimulating the head of your cock by some type of sex act. This is generally considered a penile orgasm. So what is a “prostate orgasm?” 

The prostate gland is a walnut-sized organ located in the core of your pelvis. You can find it directly through insertion into the anus, or indirectly by rubbing the perineum. If you want to go all-in on finding this wonderous erogenous zone – it’s about two inches in fingers (or toys) pointed toward your belly.

Distinctions Between Ejaculation and Orgasm

“The scientific study of orgasm has always been challenging,” Roy Jerome Levin (researcher at the University of Sheffield) writes in the journal Clinical Anatomy. When you ejaculate, seminal fluid is expelled from the shaft through stimulation. This happens mostly in conjunction with orgasm – but orgasm itself is different. 

Orgasm is the cresting of sexual delight. This release of physical tension is felt throughout your entire body. It can go hand in hand with ejaculation, but it can also be reached without coming. It can be more easily achieved through prostate stimulation.

 Numerous Male Orgasms and Dry Climax 

Believe it or not, men can reach multiple orgasms – and they don’t have to be wet. You’re probably thinking, “Yeah, right,” but it’s true. Through the use of prostate play and massagers, many men have reached a level of pleasure once thought impossible. The kicker is – you’ve got to know what you’re doing. 

 You don’t even have to ejaculate to reach the crescendo of climax. Dry orgasm in men can be achieved multiple times, in one session, through milking the prostate. Try it out on yourself first, get a toy, and then involve your partner for the most erotic experiences of your lives.

Find out how prostate massagers will make you cum like a porn star

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Top Ten Prostate Massagers For Beginners

September 1, 2020

Top Ten Prostate Massagers For Beginners

Top Ten Prostate Massagers For BeginnersTop Ten Prostate Massagers For Beginners

Our top 10 prostate massagers for beginners is one of the first lists to distinguish  between massagers made for newbies and pros. It’s an important distinction because where you fall in the camp should decide what type of massager you buy.

For example, it is a mistake of epic proportions for a newbie to buy what amounts to a tree limb with a V6 motor. It will not be fun.

At the same token, it’s a mistake for advanced players to buy what amounts to a fleshy Q-tip.  It will not be fun either.

Given the importance of these distinctions it’s a wonder why most top ten lists lump beginner massagers with advanced ones.

Part of the reason is that some sex toys come in different sizes. So it’s possible that a prostate massager could land on a top 10 beginner list as well as a top 10 Advanced player list.

Be that as it may, we think it is important to make a distinction between newbies and pros.  So we did.

A quick word on how we arrived at this list given that there are hundreds of massagers out there.

First thing is we only rate prostate massagers made out of body safe materials. That eliminates an enormous number of massagers.

We have a core value on our site:  do not promote sex toys that are a health hazard. this is why you may not see some of the more popular toys on this list.

As you may know, we do not review sex toys. We aggregate reviews from critics and users and turn them into single understandable scores to help you make a wiser purchase.

Like the movie review site Rotten Tomatoes, we don’t have a stake in naming anyone a winner or a loser. Instead, we are aggregators. Basically, we survey the reviews that are out there and summarize them for you, saving you hours and hours of research.

So the list you’re about to see reflects not our opinion or our personal taste, but the wisdom of the crowds. Enjoy!

The Top 10 Prostate Massagers For Beginners

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Njoy Pure Plug 2.0

Level: Beginner
Vibrates: no
Made of: Stainless Steel
Price: About $100

Critics Consensus

Known as the “Rolls Royce of plugs,” this absolutely gorgeous, stainless steel, hand-polished prostate massager is frequently described as a sight for sore eyes and a site for pure pleasure.

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LELO Billy

Level: Beginner

Vibrates: Yes

Made of: Silicon

Price: About $100

Critics Consensus

With a perfect curvature for the prostate, 35 vibration intensities delivering different types of orgasmic feelings, this “whisper-quiet” vibrator with a thinner girth for rookies is THE pick for beginners who want a prostate massager that vibrates.

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Fun Factory Bootie

Level: Beginner
Vibrates: No
Made of: Silicone
Price: About $36

Critics Consensus

Praised for its brilliant design, portability, soothing texture, and ease of insertion, the Fun Factory Bootie is the highest rated prostate massager for beginner. With a low price point for body-safe silicone, it's an unbeatable option for those new to prostate play.

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Aneros Helix Syn

Level: Beginner
Vibrates: No
Made of: Silicone
Price: About $72

Critics Consensus

Critics and reviewers alike loved the Aneros Eupho Syn for its ergonomic, lightweight design, surprisingly comfortable insertion, and the intense, hands-free orgasms it produces.

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Rocks Off Naughty Boy

Level: Beginner
Vibrates: Yes
Made of: Silicone
Price: About $65

Critics Consensus

Praised for being “beginner friendly” by users and critics, Naughty boy is perfect for first time users and people who prefer the slim versions of prostate massagers. It has an easy grip design, rounded head for easy insertion, and a curved design to hit the P-Spot.

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Aneros Eupho Syn

Level: Beginner
Vibrates: No
Made of: Plastic
Price: About $72

Critics Consensus

Critics and reviewers alike loved the Aneros Eupho Syn for its ergonomic, lightweight design, surprisingly comfortable insertion, and the intense, hands-free orgasms it produces.

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Aneros Progasm Jr.

Level: Beginner
Vibrates: No
Made of: Plastic
Price: About $60

Critics Consensus

Users and critics alike hail the Progasm’s ability to deliver simultaneous stimulation to the prostate, perineum and an acupressure point beneath the tailbone, despite the learning curve and some disappointment in the specially designed “tabs.”

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Fun Factory Duke

Level: Beginner
Vibrates: Yes
Made of: Silicone
Price: About $110

Critics Consensus

The appearance of the Duke may be intimidating, but users agree looks are deceiving. Its odd shape and backwards-reaching bulbous head are perfectly positioned to cup most users’ P-spot.Taking a two-tabbed approach to prostate stimulation (prostate and perineum) this massager more than satisfied most reviewers.

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Rocks Off O-Boy

Level: Beginner
Vibrates: Yes
Made of: Silicone
Price: About HERE

Critics Consensus

Sleek, vibrating silicone prostate massager for beginners, it's easily insertable. Reviewers love the slim, flexible, curved shaft, which offers non-intimidating, precise stimulation. The flared base with textured perineum tickler stops unwanted travel and the removeable 7 function bullet vibrator offers a range of vibrations.

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The Criteria For Our Top 10 Prostate Massagers For Beginners

 How do you define a beginner versus a pro?

Size. 

No really, size is everything. 🙂 

Seriously, the single defining feature of a prostate massager made for beginners is that it has a much smaller size– for easy insertion.

A small footprint (or assprint, as it were) is critical for the ability of newbies to enjoy the product. Most beginners not only have tight sphincters, they don’t know how to relax them. 

And nothing creates more tightness and anxiety than looking at a vibrating kielbasa and thinking it will rip your insides out!

Therefore, the first criteria to get on our list is that the product is small enough that it won’t freak anybody’s butt out.

Prostate massagers made for beginners tend not to have vibration capabilities. That’s not totally true for all lines of products but it mostly is and we’ll tell you why. 

Most beginners are leery. They’re still trying to wrap their minds around putting anything up their butts, let alone something that might fry their insides.

They wrongfully fear that they will either get electrocuted or get seriously hurt from too-hard vibrations.  

Nothing could be further from the truth because vibrating prostate massagers are specifically designed for the body parts they’ll be entering.

The third selection criteria for our list is the simplicity of the product. Again, newbies are turned off by say, a vibrator that can be operated by your iPhone. It’s too complicated at their stage of experience. That’s why the few beginner vibrating massagers tend to be very simple.

User Level Is Fluid

There are three sex toy user camps– beginner, intermediate, and advanced.

While we make hard distinctions between them, the truth is that some prostate toys could be labeled beginner- intermediate or intermediate-advanced.  For our purposes, we are going to make discrete categories because we think it will be more helpful, especially to beginners. 

Helpful Hints For Men New To Ass Play

Why would anybody stick an object up their ass?

Because if that object stimulates the prostate in just the right way you will get harder, cum more, shoot farther, and have the orgasm of your life.

What’s not to like?

And don’t even get us started on the health benefits. If you are suffering from an enlarged prostate or erectile dysfunction, prostate massage can be your ticket to health.

Research has shown that milking your prostate is critical to prostate health and it’s been proven to alleviate symptoms of erectile dysfunction.

How does it do that?

The prostate makes the liquid that the sperm swims in. You know it as semen. The more active the prostate is in producing this fluid and expelling it into the urethra the healthier it gets. This comes under the category of “use it or lose it.”

Sexual excitement fills the prostate with fluid. When it is expelled it cleans out all the pipes leading to it and from it. this has beneficial effects on the prostate itself.

So there is a feedback loop. The more sexually excited you get the more the prostate fills with fluid. The more the prostate fills with fluid the harder you’re going to get, which is why it has an effect on erectile dysfunction. 

Well prostate massage is not a mainstream treatment for erectile dysfunction, several studies have shown improvement in patients.

Given all those benefits the real question isn’t why you would stick an object up your ass but why you wouldn’t!

For beginners it’s important to know how to relax your sphincter before you try a prostate massager.

It doesn’t matter how small the massager is, if you are locked up so tight down there that you can’t fit a pinky without squealing like a city bus then no prostate massager is going to deliver pleasure to you no matter how good it is.

So, to make sure you can enjoy the benefits of a prostate massage we’ve created a step-by-step guide  appropriately titled, How To Relax Your Sphincter. 

Once  you’ve learned how to relax so thoroughly you can stick your arm in there up to your elbow (we’re kidding!)  you can also read our guide, How To Use A Prostate Massager.

How To Pick The Best Prostate Massager For Beginners

If we don’t say so ourselves, our list top 10 prostate massagers for beginners is terrific… but it’s really only a starting point.

See, that list is simply tell you the top-ranked prostate massagers. It does not take into account your budget, the materials you prefer it be made out of or wether the products vibrate.

This is important. What if you’re on a budget and can’t afford some of the massagers on this list? After all, the highest quality massagers–the expensivie ones– tend to have the highest ratings.

What if you only want a prostate massager made out of silicone, not glass, steel or plastic, which are all on this list.

That’s why the best way of choosing a massager that fits your needs is to take our prostate massager quiz.

This quiz will ask you four questions that get to the heart of selecting a prostate massager:  your experience level, your budget, your material preferences and whether you want the toy to vibrate or not.

The algorithm in our quiz is designed to search for the highest ranking prostate massager made with your stated preferences. Frankly, that kind of answer is way better than a static list (even though we love our static lists!).

We highly encourage you to take this free quiz as often as you like. A lot of men tell us that they use the quiz repeatedly because it allows them to look at different options, especially if they can’t make up their minds about what they want.

Enjoy!

Tips On Using Any of Our Top Ten Prostate Massagers

How do you even begin to use a prostate massager if you are new to anal play?

The first challenge is to relax your sphincter enough to let the toy in. This can be a lot harder than it seems because we have two sphincters we have to deal with.

Two sphincters?

Yes, everybody has two sphincters. The one you know about is the one you use to stop yourself from taking a dump in your best friend’s living room.

You know about that sphincter because you use it a lot throughout the day. Like when you release it to defecate. And when you stop yourself from peeing mid-stream.

This external sphincter obeys conscious commands. Here try it. Squinch your starfish 10 times in a row. Feel it?

Those tightenings are called kegel exercises. Know who uses these a lot? Women who just went through pregnancy as it is used to tighten the anus and the vagina.

The external sphincter, because it obeys conscious commands, is pretty easy to relax. However it has a twin brother and he doesn’t listen to anybody, especially you.

This is the internal sphincter and it operates alongside the external one. The problem is that you cannot command it to do anything.

Like your heartbeat or your breathing you cannot order it around. However, you can do the things that result in that sphincter relaxing. Just like you cannot consciously slow down your heart rate you can do things that result in a slowed heart rate. Like meditating.

It’s the same concept here for the internal sphincter. While you cannot control it you can do things to make it obey you indirectly.

Here’s how:

Tighten your sphincter really hard right now. It doesn’t matter where you are nobody will know. 🙂 

Now Watch what Happens for a full minute. The first 20 to 30 seconds or so you can do it no problem. But as time goes by you can slowly feel the sphincter loosening despite your best efforts at tightening it. 

Now keep tightening it as the clock ticks on until there is nothing you can do but submit to the release.

Congratulations, you just learned the first principle effectively relaxing the internal sphincter:  in order to get it to relax you first must tighten your anus.

Notice what happened? By consciously tightening your sphincter you subconsciously, with enough time, forced the internal sphincter to relax.

Forced is a strong word. Perhaps a better word is that you allowed it to relax.

This is an important concept for you to get– tension is the way to relaxation. In order to get the internal sphincter to relax you must first tighten up everything.

Basically, what you are aiming for is muscle fatigue. Because that is what causes spontaneous relaxation .

Do this:   tighten your left hand into a fist. Really hard. Then take the index finger of your right hand and try to poke it through your fist between the thumb and the index finger. Notice what happens?

Nothing. No way your index finger is going through your closed fist.

Now keep tightening your fist for as long as you can and see what happens.  Eventually you cannot maintain the tension and it relaxes.

So what does all this have to do with inserting a prostate massager?

You will insert the massager at the point that  you cannot hold the tension and the sphincter relaxes on its own.

So here are the steps in sequence:  first, put the prostate massager up against your sphincter firmly but not aggressively.  Make sure that you have plenty of lube on the massager. This is one of those things where nothing succeeds like excess. There is no such thing as too much lube.

Now, tighten your sphincter as hard as you can and keep it tight for as long as you can.

In about 60 seconds you will notice that you cannot hold the tension in your sphincter and it will start to relax. It is at that moment, when the sphincters relax on their own, that you gently insert the prostate massager.

Did we say gently? Because we meant GENTLY. 

Now notice what happened. Your anus actually provided a small vacuum and lifted the massager up into the anal cavity.

Very cool.

This is something you should pay attention to. When it comes to anal play, you are not necessarily inserting something as you are letting it be vacuumed up.

Of course that requires you to do the butterfly– tightening the wings of the sphincter and then releasing them.

The best way to practice this is with your fingers. Simply put your fingers firmly up against your sphincter without actually entering the anal cavity. Make sure your fingers are lubed up. Now start the butterfly.

Tighten your anus as hard as you can for as long as you can. At the moment you feel the inevitable release gently start inserting your finger and you will see that your anus will aid and abet the insertion through a small vacuum. Once you start doing that with a prostate massager instead of a finger the fun really begins.

Because if you can get the massager in without suffering any pain it sets you up nicely for the pleasure that comes from stimulating the prostate. 

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