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“I don’t think it should be a surprise for anyone to hear that I’m gay. I’ve been living in Los Angeles for eight years as a gay man. I’ve been at clubs drunk making out with somebody in the corner…Right after the finale, I almost started talking about it to the reporters, but I thought, ‘I’m going to wait for Rolling Stone, that will be cooler. I didn’t want the Clay Aiken thing and the celebrity-magazine bullshit. I need to be able to explain myself in context. I’m proud of my sexuality. I embrace it. It’s just another part of me….[fusion_builder_container hundred_percent=”yes” overflow=”visible”][fusion_builder_row][fusion_builder_column type=”1_1″ background_position=”left top” background_color=”” border_size=”” border_color=”” border_style=”solid” spacing=”yes” background_image=”” background_repeat=”no-repeat” padding=”” margin_top=”0px” margin_bottom=”0px” class=”” id=”” animation_type=”” animation_speed=”0.3″ animation_direction=”left” hide_on_mobile=”no” center_content=”no” min_height=”none”][Ultimately], I’m trying to be a singer, not a civil rights leader.”

More: “I loved it this season when the girls went crazy for me. As far as I’m concerned, it’s all hot.”

And even more: “Clay Aiken’s gay, and I’m gay, and we couldn’t be more different. The only thing that is the same about everyone in the gay community is that we’re gay. … Why can’t we talk about a human community?”

Thanks to Towleroad.com for the summary. For more, including, behind-the-scenes cover shoot video click here.

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Wide-On. noun.  A slang term denoting a state of female sexual interest and arousal.
Ex: “Vaguely kinky pictures of tattooed men give me a wide-on.”

This week’s wide-on was suggested to me by an acquaintance that had dinner with him and his very cute Georgia born and bred wife, actress KaDee Strickland.

Although I had initially not recognized his name, as soon as I researched him I realized I had seen him in quite a few things. Any fans of the TV show Roswell or the movie “The Grudge” would have recognized the name or at least the cute ass immediately.

If his hand needs a rest, I would certainly volunteer to hold on for him. That looks like a mighty important piece of equipment.

These pictures make him look a bit like Jim Morrison and he is in the top ten of my all time greatest “Wide-On’s”.

You don’t have to be actually living to be hot. I’ve woken up with a few questionable ones before.

Have a wonderful weekend!

Love and Kisses,

Cult Diva

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Channing Tatum

I’m engaging in an inappropriate relationship with a married man. No, we’ve never had sex. But we are intimate. Despite his funky logic and justification, I still consider this cheating.

My friendship with Charlie has spanned almost twenty years. We’ve seen each other through  failed engagements, bad dates, good dates,  tragic losses and supreme successes. He is my best friend and will always be a part of my life, regardless of who I eventually settle down with. That’s a non-negotiable. We are that close. We are a package deal. Unfortunately, I don’t think his wife would approve. That is, if she even knew I existed. [Read more…] about The Wife Fluffer

Katy, our equivalent of Samantha on Sex and the City entertained us with her latest exploits which included her hook up with Erik, the newest resident in her condo loft complex. Katy had spotted him in the on-site health club facility while sweating it out on the elliptical machine and observing his gargantuan feet and hands and large Slavic nose. Katy concluded that Erik must be packing where it counts and set about sashaying her overly augmented breasts and big round booty around the gym while nonchalantly flirting the special way that only a Southern Belle can do.

[Read more…] about Big Nose, Big Hands, Big Feet, Big Penis?

Pâtisserie mécanique / Mechanical pastry from Loup Thévenin on Vimeo.

Do you know how long it took me to type the above sentence? I kept hitting the wrong keys as I was distracted by the overflowing tighty whities of this week’s “Wide-On”, Channing Tatum.

Don’t you just want to reach in there and help him readjust? Lawsy mercy, mine eyes dazzle. [Read more…] about Wide-On Of The Week: Channing Tatum

“Nice Shoes, Wanna Fuck?”

Gay men have a reputation for having a three-word philosophy: Anything That Moves. There’s a perception that we can have whomever we want whenever we want for whatever we need. Not true. We throw a look or a smile and if we get it back, SCHWING! But if we don’t get it back–and trust me, mostly we don’t…the wheels come off. We’re as threatened by beauty, tongue-tied by crushes, and paralyzed by fear as straight guys when they see a beautiful woman.

That’s why the reaction most gay guys have when they see somebody at a party or a bar goes something like this: [Read more…] about The Secret To Meeting And Attracting Hot Gay Men

A question about the murder of “abortion doctor” George Tiller: If abortion opponents are so concerned about children, how come they don’t murder child-traffickers instead of “abortion doctors”?

Why do they care more about the concept of children rather than actual children? According to the U.S. Department of Justice, there are hundreds of thousands of girls and boys being bought, sold or kidnapped and then forced to have sex with grown men all over the world. They are children born into poverty and sold for sex. So, where are the picket signs and the Promise Keepers? Why are they bombing abortion clinics instead of child traffic operations?
[Read more…] about Why the right shoots abortion doctors not child traffickers.

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