The Do’s & Don’ts of Gay Texting
Here’s our short bible on gay texting. First, let’s look at the bullet-point version and then we’ll expand on each point:
•Use exclamation marks! They are your best friends and using them makes you seem more sincere.
• Respond to texts promptly, especially if you’re not busy.
• Don’t start a text and then just stop replying. It’s rude.
• Avoid using one word responses like ‘okay’ or ‘fine’ that can be perceived as passive aggressive. Instead, show excitement appropriately.
• Don’t attempt to have serious conversations via text – talk in person instead.
• No long essays about your feelings – it’s okay to have one of those 10-page texts like once a year, but don’t hide behind texting every time you’re feeling a strong emotion.
Ok, now that we got that out of the way, let’s dive in.
How and When to Use Exclamation Marks in Texts
We’ve all been there—you’re texting your friend about plans for the weekend and they take forever to respond. Or you send your boss a question about an upcoming project and they reply with a simple “yes” that lacks any enthusiasm. In moments like these, you might find yourself wondering: Should I have used an exclamation mark?
Exclamation marks can be a powerful tool in texts, emails, and other forms of written communication. Used sparingly, they can make the sender seem more sincere and encourage a prompt response. So, when is it appropriate to use an exclamation mark? All the time.
Benefits of Using Exclamation Marks
Exclamation marks can be very useful in written communication for a few reasons. First, they can make the sender seem more sincere. A message that simply says “I’m sorry” can come across as cold or insincere. However, adding an exclamation mark changes the tone completely! Now, the message conveys genuine remorse.
Second, exclamation marks can encourage a prompt response. If your question needs an immediate answer or if you’re conveying time-sensitive information, adding an exclamation mark will let the recipient know that they need to reply quickly.
Finally, exclamation marks can add excitement to a message. They convey enthusiasm and show that you’re genuinely excited about something. This is especially important in written communication because the recipient can’t see your facial expressions or hear the inflection in your voice.
When to Use Exclamation Marks
Now that we know the benefits of using exclamation marks, let’s look at some examples of when it might be appropriate to use one (or two!).
– Plans for the weekend: “Let’s get together for lunch on Saturday! My treat!”
– Good news: “I got the promotion!”
– Apologies: “I’m so sorry about what happened.”
– Meeting reminders: “Don’t forget our meeting at 3pm today!”
Of course, there are also times when it’s best to avoid using exclamation marks. For instance, one-word responses such as “yes” or “no” rarely warrant an exclamation mark. Additionally, serious conversations are best had in person or over the phone so that each party can gauge the other’s reactions and gauge their level of sincerity. Texting is not an effective medium for these types of conversations.
Texting For The Gays: Use Exclamation Marks Liberally
Exclamation marks can be a helpful tool in written communication when used sparingly. They can make the sender seem more sincere and encourage a prompt response from the recipient. However, it’s important to avoid using them excessively or in inappropriate situations such as during serious conversations. When used effectively, exclamation marks can help you create meaningful connections with others through text!
The Role of Rapid Responses
In today’s world, it’s more important than ever to be responsive to texts. Whether you’re communicating with a friend, family member, or business associate, people expect prompt replies. Of course, there are times when you can’t respond right away, but in general, it’s best to reply as soon as possible. This shows that you’re interested in the conversation and that you value the person’s time.
Furthermore, it helps to prevent miscommunications and misunderstandings. So next time you get a text, try to respond promptly, even if you’re not busy. It will make a world of difference in your relationship with the other person.
There’s nothing more frustrating than sending a text and then not getting a reply. It’s even worse when the person you’re texting with starts to ghost you, gradually disappearing until they’ve completely stopped responding. Not only is it rude, but it’s also a major violation of social etiquette. If you’re going to start a text conversation, have the courtesy to finish it.
Otherwise, you risk leaving the other person hanging and feeling frustrated. So next time you’re tempted to ignore a text, think twice. It’s the polite thing to do.
NO On One Word Responses
The next time someone asks how you are doing, try to resist the urge to give a one-word response. Although it may seem like a harmless way to answer the question, using words like “okay” or “fine” can often be perceived as passive aggressive.
Instead, take the opportunity to show some excitement and enthusiasm. If you’re having a good day, let the other person know with a smile and a cheery response. If you’re not feeling your best, there’s no need to put on a false front – simply explain that you’re feeling under the weather and leave it at that. By taking the time to give a more thoughtful answer, you can help to brighten someone’s day and create a more positive communication style.
Don’t Text Your Drama
In the digital age, it’s easy to communicate with others without ever having to leave the comfort of our homes. We can text, email, and even video chat with just a few clicks. While this convenience is great for keeping in touch with friends and family, it’s not always the best way to have deep or meaningful conversations.
That’s because it’s often difficult to gauge tone and intention via text, which can lead to misunderstandings. What’s more, we can’t pick up on important nonverbal cues, such as body language and facial expressions. For these reasons, it’s usually best to avoid having serious conversations via text. If you need to discuss something important with someone, it’s best to do it in person. That way, you can ensure that both parties are on the same page and avoid miscommunication.
Don’t Overshare
Feelings are a tricky thing. They can be so overwhelming sometimes that all we want to do is hide away from the world and avoid everyone. But that’s not really living, is it? It’s important to feel our feelings and work through them, but that doesn’t mean we have to share every single one with the people around us.
There’s nothing wrong with bottling things up sometimes – in fact, it can be healthy. It gives us a chance to process our emotions and figure out what we’re really feeling. So next time you’re feeling a strong emotion, try putting your phone down and taking some time for yourself. You might be surprised at how much better you feel afterwards.
If you’re ever in doubt, err on the side of caution and keep your thoughts to yourself. It’s better to be thought of as private than to be known as the person who always overshares.