Body Language Series Recap

 

So, you started out with body language signs that blinked “Beat it” and morphed theminto signs that say, “Beat me.” Congratulations! Now, keep the beat going by remembering these core principles:

1. Invite him to make eye contact with eyebrow flashes and longer-than-usual gazes.

2. Respond to his gaze by averting your eyes downward then looking up.

3. Remove doubt about your intentions by using the triangular sweep gaze.

4. If he doesn’t return your look, check your attention-getting devices—don’t slouch, keep your palms and arms uncrossed, and wear necklaces and form-fitting clothes.

5. If he looked but won’t come over, take the risk out of it for him by opening your ‘territory line’ and excusing yourself from your friends so you’ll be alone.

6. When he comes over create ‘invisible hallways” with your gestures to draw him in, and point with everything you’ve got—your head, feet, arms and everything in between.

7. Get him to touch you with irresistible invitations like wearing a crooked tie.

8. Open the lube without spilling it.

That’s it!

You’ve learned the basics principles, how to do a body language inventory, the best ways of approaching handsome men and the most effective ways of making yourself more approachable.

Now all you have to do is practice.

And, uhm, you do have to practice. There are three things I *still* do to make sure I don’t forget (it’s easy to lapse back into bad habits when you’re under stress–and being around beautiful men is always stressful!). I’d like to share them with you:

1. FREEZE!

Write this word on a post-it note and tape it to your bathroom mirror. It’ll remind you to do an “in-field” body language inventory (when you’re out at the bars or parties).

2. “Open up” your body.

Make sure nothing is blocking your chest area–not arms, not a drink, nothing.

3. “Warm the path” to your door.

Make it easy for guys to approach you by opening your “territory line.”

One final thought

The skills you need to meet and attract good-looking guys are the same skills you need to attract better friends, better jobs and better relationships. Learn how to attract the guys that you want and you’ll learn how to attract everything you want.

The principles in this gay body language series, properly applied, will not just raise your love life to a new level; it’ll elevate your entire life.

Now, see the hottie in the corner? The one who’s not looking at you? Let’s go talk to him.

 

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