How To Get Past Tight Sphincters To Massage Your Prostate

You’ve heard so much about the boundless pleasures of prostate massage. You’ve heard about having full body orgasms simply by stimulating your prostate with a massager.

 So you try.

 No dice.

 Can’t get past your tightened anus.

 It’s like your prostate is guarded fiercely by a pair of sphincters.  Like Twin Dragons at the gate.

 Wait, did we say two sphincters?

 Yes. All of us have two sphincters not just one. The first one is the one you’re familiar with — the external sphincter. You are familiar with it because you can consciously tighten and relax it.

 Otherwise you would be taking a dump in the living room before you can get to the bathroom!

What most people don’t know is that there is an internal sphincter right next to the external sphincter and it does not obey conscious demands. This is why it’s so hard to consciously relax your anus. 

On the one hand you have a sphincter that obeys you (the external one), but on the other hand you have one that does not (the internal one). People who can successfully use prostate massagers know that they have to coax the internal sphincter to relax.

 But how do you get the internal sphincter to relax if it doesn’t obey your conscious demands, like yelling at it to relax 🙂

 Unless you figure out how to relax the internal sphincter you are going to be in too much pain to enjoy a prostate massage.

Fortunately, there are ways to make your internal sphincter relax. It requires you to think outside the box and understand that while you cannot force relaxation you can do indirect things that result in that relaxation.

For example, you cannot raise your blood pressure or your heart rate by commanding yourself to do it. But you can do things that result in raising them. Like exercising. Or watching a scary movie. Or thinking about all the pleasure that awaits you from a prostate massage 🙂

So what are those things? Great question. Click here to get a detailed account.  It’s our main page about How To Use A Prostate Massager. Just scroll past about halfway down and you will see tabs the tell you what to do.

The instructions are truly original.  They work so effectively you will want to apply the recommendations to other areas of your life whenever you experience anxiety and tension. It’s kind of funny, but the takeaway is that whatever is good for your ass is good for your life!

Once you learn how to effectively relax your internal sphincter it’s really important you don’t use a prostate massager that is too big for you. If you are just starting out you need to make sure that you use a massager specifically designed for beginners.

As a beginner you should know there is no such thing as too small, too slow or too much lube. You are defeating the purpose of a pleasurable prostate massage if you have to go through a lot of pain to get one.