How To Give Great Head Part 6
What makes a beautiful cock? It’s a question for the ages—and a science lab, it turns out. Scientists at the University of Zurich recently published a study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine that asked just that question.
They showed a focus group of over 100 women ages 16-45 a wide range of erect penises (nice work if you can get it!) and asked them to rank the importance of eight penile characteristics ranging from length to pubic hair.
Survey Says
What characteristic came in at #1? Most gay men would predict SIZE, but they’d be wrong. Actually, they’d be wrong on stilts. In order of importance, this is how women ranked penile characteristics:
- General cosmetic appearance
- Appearance of pubic hair
- Penile skin
- Penile girth
- Shape of glans
- Penile length
- Appearance of scrotum
- Position and shape of meatus (urethra)
Wait, why am I showing you a study on women? Because there are no studies on what gay men think about dick, so close enough! Now, there are a couple of things worth noting about these results. First and most obvious, we might share a love for cock with straight women, but we definitely put more of a priority on size.
Second, when women do mention size, it’s an aspect that men rarely focus on—girth. A girlfriend perfectly captured this preference over our second, okay, third bottle of wine. “It’s not the length I like in a penis,” she said. “It’s the roundth!”
The “appearance of pubic hair” placed a surprisingly strong second and this provides us with an opportunity to significantly increase your attraction to the penis: Manscaping. We’ll talk more about getting him (or you!) to trim his pubic hair in the next chapter, but for now, I want to emphasize why it’s so important to increase your attraction to penis.
It’s simple: The more you pant for it, the more turned on you’ll be when you’re blowing him. Remember, this book is not just about better techniques to use on him but about increasing the pleasure you get out of applying them.
Back To Terms
Okay, let’s get back to the definition of a beautiful penis.
Academic studies may reveal preferences in penile characteristics but the question of beauty remains in the eyes of the cock holder. Here’s one articulate paean to a pretty penis:
I’ve told my boyfriend that he has the cock that all dildos wish they could be, and it’s oh so true. And it IS just beautiful. I think good proportions are the most important part. It has the perfect girth for his length, and the head matches the shaft just right. And I like a little bit of vein popping up here and there. He has this amazing, thick vein right on top. And his balls seem to fit the whole package perfectly. He’s circumcised and keeps his hair trimmed, but not shaved bare, which matches my preferences perfectly.I could go on for days about his cock. I want to make a mold of it and send it to a museum. I actually googled “perfect cock” to see if I could find a picture for comparison, but I like his better than all those examples. Simply put, when you see a beautiful cock, you know it.”
—B.
Personally, I think the definition of a beautiful cock is simple: It hangs off a guy you find beautiful. You can talk all you want about symmetry, girth, or a well-manicured bed of pubes, a stellar dick on a gross guy means nothing. The guy attached to it matters the most.
When I say a cock is ‘beautiful’ I’m referring to both its appearance AND the pleasure it gives you. A metaphor may be found in something else you put in your mouth—food. You may say that a meal was beautiful, but you would never limit the definition to how it looked on the plate. You’d also describe how good it tasted and how satisfied it made you feel.