If your thighs stop 20 seconds after you do, that’s not feeling fat, that’s being it.
Either way, one of my best friends, Tracey Cox, the resident sex guru at ivillage posted this article on how to have sex when you’re feeling fat.
Here’s how she begins:
“Just because you’re tired, bloated or having a horrendous fat day (we’ve all been there), that doesn’t mean it has to be a no-sex night! No matter the reason, it’s easy to work around these common lust-busters — if you know the right moan-inducing moves. Just follow my intimate instructions for any of the problems below, and you’ll be basking in the afterglow in no time.”
She has terrific suggestions (my favorite: blindfold him), but what I really like is the underlying tone: how to get it over with, QUICKLY. Reminds me of what Chris Rock said about his wife: “Before we got married she wanted sex more than I did. Now, she’s like, “Stick it in, I got clothes to fold.”
You go, Trace!