YOUR ODDS. ——->
You chatted online or talked on the phone almost every night for weeks. You really fell for him even though you never physically met. Then suddenly he stops all contact. He won’t return your emails, texts or calls. You’re crushed, and you just can’t rest until you know why he ended it. How bad is it to ask for closure from someone you’ve never met? If you’re talking every night for weeks doesn’t the other guy owe you something?
He owes you nothing. N-O-T-H-I-N-G. How can somebody you’ve never met owe you for something that never happened? Besides, what if he’s hideous? What if he’s a toxic waste dump who disguised himself as oceanfront property? You’d end up getting closure from a foreclosure.
Yes, you’re hurt. Who wouldn’t be? But you’re the one who allowed it to happen. The point of online dating is to hook up or date-not to have endless phone conversations and weave chat threads into adorable little sweaters. The next time you meet somebody online cut to the chase. Tell them you’re not here to type; you’re here to meet. If he’s dodging all your invitations he ain’t just hinting that something ain’t right-he’s skywriting it.