How To Give An Amazing Blowjob Part 24
The Peacock Technique Continued (again!)
The Sloppy Diamond
Put your partner on his back at the edge of the bed where you can kneel and have access to his whole body. Picture a line drawn from his cock to his right nipple to his mouth to his left nipple and back to his cock. That’s the diamond path your mouth will travel.
TEASE
Start by sucking the head of his cock gently. He’s now thinking he’s going to spend a long time in your mouth. WRONG. After maybe two or three bobs go to his right nipple and suck on it 2-3 times with big wet kisses, licks, and nibbles (oh, you tease!) Now, he’s thinking, okay, a little nipple action. WRONG.
LURE
You now go for his mouth and give him 2-3 very wet, long kisses. Notice how you’ve lured him into thinking you’re going to do one thing and then you do another.
TEASE AGAIN
At this point, he’s thinking, “WTF! I have no idea where she’s going!” Exactly. And because he doesn’t know, his senses are heightened and your very unpredictability makes everything feel like, well, those chocolate chip cookies you can smell but can’t eat.
Now, follow the diamond line and go to his left nipple and pay devoted attention with your tongue.
ESCALATE
Go back to his cock. What’ll really make him grab the sheets is when you start varying how you go down the diamond path of his hot zones. For instance, going from his cock to his mouth back and forth, ignoring his nipples. The inability to predict builds anticipation. So be unpredictable. While you’re traveling down the diamond path with your mouth, your hands are free to double his pleasure. You can, for example, put a left-hand finger in his mouth while stroking his balls with your right. While kissing him you could caress his face. While sucking on his nipples you could stroke his inner thighs. This is when you start having sex Tivo style: Play…fast forward…slow motion…stop…rewind…play.
RESOLVE
Speed up the process (get to the different parts of his body quicker) and build momentum. Finally, settle exclusively on his cock, and instead of giving it 2 or 3 long bobs before moving on, use the “O-ring” technique mentioned earlier and keep doing that for a while. He will go radioactive with pleasure.
Why it works: The Sloppy Diamond builds anticipation (“when is she going to suck me off?”), provides action and energy (moving between different parts of his body), lures him into thinking he knows where you’re going, supplies variety (stimulating different erotic zones) and resolves tension (by settling on his cock with O-ring motions).
Let’s Review
Increasing anticipation increases sexual pleasure. Lowering anticipation lowers pleasure. Ever had sex with a guy who skips the warm kisses and tender caresses and just tries to stick it in you? That’s an example of no anticipation creating no pleasure.
Here’s another example of anticipation’s importance in creating pleasure. Think about your favorite drink. I prefer a chilled chardonnay around 7 pm (only on days that end in “y,” however). Around 4 pm I start fantasizing about the golden liquid behind a chilled glass teasing me with its droplets of condensation. The anticipation actually changes my physical state. When I actually pour the nectar of the Gods into a glass at 7 pm and put it to my lips it’s clear: My anticipation of a longed-for event heightened its ultimate pleasure.
This is what you should be aiming for in all your blowjob techniques: building anticipation, providing action and energy, supplying variety and resolving tension. In other words, TEASE, LURE, ESCALATE, RESOLVE.
Why dust him with the feathers of ordinary fowl when you can transform him with the spectacular plumage of a peacock?