How To Give The Best Blow Job Part 15
So far, we’ve taken your partner on a slow roll along a beautiful countryside in a vintage car. Now it’s time to kick the standoff the Harley, rev the engine and blow the carbon out. For that, we need to:
- Cover more area of the penis with your mouth.
- Use pressure and friction to stimulate the penis.
- Establish a rhythm and increase the speed to make the penis harder than the back of a bus stop bench.
Concentrate on giving the penis a full-length mouth massage. The objective here is to cover the entirety of his penis with your mouth (or as much as you can without gagging) while establishing a bobbing rhythm and increasing the pressure with your lips.
Flatten That Tongue
As your mouth descends on his hardness, flatten your tongue to provide fuller contact with the penis. It’s warmer, moister, and creates a better pressure seal. It also opens your vocal canal, allowing you to take more of your guy’s cock in your mouth. Remember: Grip with the Lips, and Flatten with the Tongue.
Your tongue should be in near-constant motion, massaging the underside of the shaft on downstrokes and circling the head on upstrokes.
Depending on the size of your partner’s penis (is it a taco? A burrito?) you’re going to gag sooner or later. The trick is to know when you’re getting close to your gag reflex and stopping before you get there. We’ll talk about getting rid of your gag reflex in a later chapter but for now, simply avoid the trigger spot. It isn’t pleasant for either of you. You’ll cough up a lung and he’ll have his pleasure interrupted. Nobody wins!
Speaking of nobody winning, let’s talk about teeth. Don’t. Ever. Do you know how a man spells “pain” when his partner uses teeth? IN ALL CAPS.
Let’s Cut To The Uncut
A true paradox of the uncut penis is that the foreskin contains thousands of nerve endings that can drive a guy wild, yet it can prevent other parts of the penis from experiencing pleasure. You cannot give a proper blowjob to an uncircumcised man without pulling the foreskin back toward the base of the penis. If you suck an uncut penis without pulling the foreskin down, it leaves the head covered and neglected of most stimulation. It’s like oral dry-humping, and if you’ve learned anything in this book, it’s that “dry” is to a blowjob what “rough” is to cunnilingus—grounds for divorce.
Aside from not pulling the foreskin away from the head, the next most common mistake is yanking the foreskin toward the base. First, you shouldn’t be “yanking” anything near a man’s junk. Stimulating an uncut penis isn’t like playing the guitar—you don’t grab it by the neck and make it holler.
Rather, imagine “unrolling” the dick, slowly exposing the head. Gently tug the foreskin to the base of the penis but don’t keep it there. Stroke it back-and-forth and you’ll activate the nerve endings in the foreskin and the head of the penis. It’s a double shot of pleasure, as he’s going to feel your hand on his dick and a delicious sliding as the foreskin glides over the shaft and glans, alternately covering and exposing it.
“Blowjobs are part physical, part psychological. The real appeal doesn’t come from the physicality of it for me, but for the fact that I know the sight of me with my mouth wrapped around his dick is something he’ll have a mental snapshot of forever. Pretty sexy, right?”—P.
Tug and Glide
Mastering the foreskin “tug and glide” is essential to unlocking your uncut guy’s orgasms. In order for your man to fully feel the moist wonders of your mouth, you must gently pull back the foreskin in a back-and-forth motion. Did I mention gently? Because I meant GENTLY!
Notice: Some uncircumcised guys have a lot of foreskin and others have very little. The less skin present, the more gentle you should be when pulling the foreskin toward the base of the penis, as it will cause a guy a lot of pain if you pull too tightly.
Generally, the more foreskin a guy has, the more you can “roughhouse” with the foreskin. Try using your lips to gently nibble on the hood of your man’s foreskin, tugging the skin toward your mouth. Directly or indirectly, he’ll let you know whether that is something he enjoys, and if it appears to bring him pleasure, work your way around the foreskin using the same soft “bites” with your lips.
Some uncut guys also enjoy actual bites on the foreskin, but the possibility of your guy not liking it is great enough that you should either forget it or do it so softly that he doesn’t panic and lift your face off him.
When trying to understand how to pleasure foreskin, think of your nipples. Maybe you like your nipples licked and softly sucked, or perhaps you want a guy to gnaw on your tips like he’s trying to untie a knot with his teeth. Either way, it can be agonizing when a guy gets it wrong. The same is true with foreskin. Some dudes can’t stand any friction against it, while other guys don’t mind if you nibble it just a little bit.
Fabulous Tip For Men Who Have Tips!
Once the dick is hard, position your tongue along the shaft or head of the penis while you have the foreskin pulled back. Then release your tug and let the foreskin roll over your tongue. He’ll feel your warm wetness both on the underside of his foreskin and the surface of his penis. It’ll feel so good you’ll have him pronouncing all four “e’s” in shit.