How To Give Good Head Part 30
Why Would You Want to Deep Throat?
For the challenge. For the power. For the feeling. Let’s take a look:
Physical
In Deep Throat, the seminal movie that erected new sexual norms in the 1970s, Linda Lovelace plays a sexually dissatisfied woman who goes to a doctor who discovers her “throat clit.” While that may sound like the corniest of plot lines, there’s evidence that women—and men– can indeed experience a kind of oral orgasm while deep throating. The back of the throat is connected to the genitals via the vagus nerve and the massage a penis provides to it can stimulate sexual sensations. By the way, “Vagus” means wanderer—the nerve wanders through the body from the brain to the throat all the way to your southern regions.
Pride
Being able to deep throat might not be the type of thing you brag about to grandma, but it’s still a talent worth celebrating. There’s a certain sexual swagger that develops in those who know their mouth can tame the meanest of cocks and fulfill their man in a way that others can only fantasize about.
Power
Counter to the common misperception, the person doing the sucking holds all of the power during deep throating. You determine how wide to open your mouth, and how far the penis penetrates it. You decide whether to stroke your man’s ego by gagging for relief or crush his spirits by effortlessly swallowing his penis like a baby carrot. You determine whether to take control and regulate the pace. Hell, you’re in control of whether deep throating happens or not!
Intimacy
Being relaxed is an essential part of being able to deep throat as it’s hard for your throat to expand when you’re filled with tension. Deep throating your guy is one of the most intimate gifts you can offer him, but it can also tap into your spirit. According to Tantra philosophy, the fifth chakra is located in the throat, providing the gateway to your truest expression.
Pick Your Position
While a common position for oral sex is you on your knees and your partner (or partners—I don’t judge!) standing over you, this is not the ideal stance for a deep throat session unless the guy has a downward curve to his penis. You should always account for the shape and angles of your man’s cock when identifying the best positions for blowjobs and this is especially true if you want to deep throat him.
Open Wide & Say “Ahhhhh.”
Here’s an interesting way of relaxing your gag reflex while his penis is entering your mouth. Pretend your doctor is about to use the tongue depressor on you. Say “Ahhh.” This opens the throat and gives the doctor a wider view of your throat. It also provides a bigger canal for your partner’s ship to pass through. Once you say “Ahhh” your mouth will be ready for the other half of that religious affirmation: “Men.”
The most effective position for deep throating is lying on your back with your head dangling off the bed, which automatically flattens your tongue and expands your vocal canal. With this position, you surrender some control to your partner, but what you lose in sexual power you’ll gain in oral depth.
Another great position for deep throating is “69,” where you align your bodies so that each person’s mouth is on the other’s genitals, simultaneously performing oral sex. Every inch of his purple mountain majesty gets easier to swallow as his lips and tongue rub against your crotch. Just remember to be careful. Even if you subdue your gag reflex, it is exceedingly hard to breathe when a dick is that far down your throat. You don’t want to go from dying for dick to dying from it!