How To Give A Man A Blowjob Part 28
More Techniques On Deep Throating
Thumb Clenching
This is a popular dentists’ trick that distracts your brain. Lifehacker.com cites a study showing it is effective in tamping down a gag reflex. All you have to do is make a fist with your left hand and clench your fingers around your thumb. The top of your thumb should not be visible. Put a fair amount of pressure on your thumb. If you want to test it, put a right-hand finger down your throat as you clench your left thumb. You may notice a pronounced decrease of your gag reflex. Why does it work for some people? Scientists think the pressure may simply be distracting enough to stop you from gagging.
Apply Pressure To Your Hegu Point
According to the same Lifehacker-reported study, putting pressure on the Hegu point can hold off the gag reflex. The Hegu is the concave soft point between your thumb and index finger. Pinch it hard and it can relieve the gag reflex.
Apply Pressure Between The Chin & Lower Lip
This too seems to diminish the gag reflex. You could get your partner to do it but that’s a serious commitment to what amounts to a sexual parlor trick. It may be more work than it’s worth. Still, it’s an option.
Numb Your Soft Palate
You can use a numbing throat spray to desensitize the soft palate or a gel that’s normally used to relieve tooth pain. The effects should last for about an hour.
As you can see, you have several options to load more cargo in your mouth. These techniques will help you tame your gag reflex for routine blowjobs. But if you want to earn a black belt in oral—deep throating—you need to learn a few more things, especially if your partner is hung like a club-tailed dragon.
Before we talk about those techniques, a question must be asked…
Should You Deep Throat A Guy?
All those who believe in psychokinesis, raise my hand. No? Okay, all those who believe they should deep throat a guy raise your hand. Okay, now slap yourself with that hand. Deep throating, or taking an erect dick so deep into your throat that your lips touch the base of his penis, is difficult for almost everyone. You should not attempt it without first training your gag reflex. More importantly, you should not attempt it unless you think it will bring you pleasure, never mind him.
I would highly discourage you from trying to deep throat if, during routine blowjobs, you cough and gag like you just took a killer bong hit. You should make no apologies for not trying or even not wanting to try. Sometimes a girl’s gotta do what a girl’s gotta do. And sometimes a girl’s gotta put her foot down on a dick.
Besides, you can give unforgettable oral without making the rabbit disappear completely into the hat. Now, having said that, there is one good reason to try: The challenge. One of the reasons deep throating is so impressive is precisely because so few people can do it. In a sense, it is a sexual title that must be earned.
The Upside Of Choking
When a penis gets lodged in the back of your throat the body instinctively starts choking. What may surprise you is that gagging can help your ability to give head. As you gag, the throat begins to lubricate itself in the hope of dislodging the foreign object and that lubrication is in the form of saliva.
That is one hell of a way to give a wetter blowjob.
To be sure, it doesn’t count if you’re deep throating a guy whose penis is so small he can make it disappear by breathing in and out. Deep throating a four-inch penis is commendable, but not particularly impressive. It’s like winning a daytime Emmy. Generally, at least six inches are required before you can pat yourself in the back and say you accomplished something. Let’s take a look at what it takes to stop dicking around with the bronze and go for the gold.
Team Throat
While the throat is the star, the lips and tongue are the executive producers, fluffers, grips, and every other supporting crew member that makes the production a success. In addition to the massaging talents of both, the lips will help you wrangle the increased slobber that deep-throating uncorks while flattening the tongue is key to unlocking the depths of your throat canal.
And while we’re doing an inventory of the parts of your mouth it’s important to stay conscious of your teeth while you’re attempting to deep throat. Your chompers are more exposed the wider you stretch your mouth, and your jaws will instinctively clinch down when your gag reflex is poked. Talk about stealing victory from the jaws of defeat!