How To Give The Best Blow Job Part 18
Look In His Eyes. In sex, eyes aren’t just the window to his soul; they’re the portal to his lust, so look into his eyes when you’re going down on him. The sexual charge takes the excitement to another level. Why? Because in his mind, you’re not just sucking a cock, you’re sucking his cock. It makes him feel special like you don’t want to taste just anybody’s cock, only his. This, of course, is a complete lie, but every good encounter requires fundamental acting skills.
While making him feel more special is a noble gesture on your part there is actually a far better reason to look in his eyes when your mouth is full of him—it will turn YOU on:
“I love the visual aspect of a cock disappearing into a willing mouth…and sometimes I envy the man because he gets to look down at his cock moving in and out between loving lips of a wanting woman. So, because I cannot see it from where I am…up close to all the action…I imagine how it must look to the man I am sucking…seeing it from his point of view. That turns me on BIGTIME!! I love when a man tells his man to “look up” at him while he sucks him…and I imagine that sight from his perspective.Eye contact is so important for me during sex. Eyes are windows to the soul…so to look into them means to see more than just a cock…or a man …but instead to see right through to what makes them who they are. That is something I find incredibly attractive when I am in love. I want to see inside the man, which allows me access to even his deepest, darkest secrets and desires. When I look up into a man’s eyes as I suck his cock, my heart beats even faster and harder, making me hornier and wetter. To see a man’s eyes reflecting the emotions he is feeling…the amazing sight he is seeing…the sensations he is experiencing…THAT stays with me and affects my every thought of him from that moment on.”
—From Literotica.com
Make It Sound Like There’s A Half-Off Sale At The Liposuction Center
“Sex sounds” will make your head sessions feel like a manned moon shot. Along with talking dirty, the natural sounds of a wet mouth on a hard cock are especially appealing to men because it adds another dimension to the experience. Especially if you’re in a position where he can’t see you. What he lacks in visuals you’ll more than make up with sounds.
Try an experiment on your partner: Have him turn his back to you while you pull up a porn video with a fantastic oral sex scene. Turn the volume up. The squelching sounds of hands and a saliva-covered mouth rubbing over a pulsing hard cock will bring him to his knees (and hopefully you too!).
Why are sex sounds such a turn-on? Because they amplify what you’re seeing and feeling. It’s easy to see why ambient sounds are important—because they can create emotions. For example, imagine making love in a room next to a construction site with all kinds of noise pollution—beeping backup trucks, jackhammers on concrete and strange men yelling at each other. Not terribly conducive to love-making.
Now pretend the room is outside a deserted beach with waves lapping at the shore. Big difference, no? Sounds don’t just create an emotional state, they also give context to what you’re doing. Ever driven an all-electric car? There’s almost no sound from the engine. It’s a little unsettling. Whether it’s an electric vehicle or a hot man, you do NOT want to be in a position of wondering whether you’ve turned them on!
Prick His Pressure Point
You’re kneeling between his legs. You spread his legs apart but with his knees bent toward his chest. You hold his dick in your wet mouth, bobbing gently while your hands find the middle of his hamstring muscles. Gently press one or two fingers into each hamstring (no nails please). Move your fingers a little to the left or right and press (trigger point locations differ slightly). Press gently at first and then with increasing pressure (but never enough to hurt). It’s an incredible sensation.
Freshen Him Up With A Crescendo
This is actually best done before you start giving him head, as a gentle way to heat him up, but it’s also a way to introduce variety in the middle of things. Lightly brush your hair against his body. It’ll feel like feathers. Start with the chest and work your way down to his crotch. Then go down the side of his thighs, even to his calves. Work your way up to his crotch again. Dangle dangle on his dingle dangle.
Externally Stimulate His Prostate
Wait, how can you stimulate the prostate without inserting a finger into his anus? Because the prostate lays just inside the “taint.” It’s fairly easy to locate because an erection causes the prostate gland to swell to the size of a walnut. Gently reach underneath his scrotum and hold his testicles up. Using a well-lubricated hand (spit is okay, lube is better), gently run your fingers between half an inch and an inch behind the scrotum. You should be about halfway between the back of the scrotum and the anus at this point. The prostate will be about one inch below the rectum towards the scrotum.
As you stroke his penis (or keep it in your mouth), gently massage two fingers into the area. Try to move your fingers down and back, toward his tailbone. You will begin to feel a soft, but firm, spot. This is the prostate gland.
The prostate gland becomes very sensitive when a man is sexually aroused. It has a circular feedback loop: When he gets hard, the prostate swells up. Stimulate the prostate and you make his erection harder. Once he begins to orgasm, apply some pressure on the prostate and he will cum harder and with more volume.
And then you will have the keys to his kingdom.